Chocolate brings pleasure or was it just a myth?

More than anything, I'm in love with chocolate.

Chocolate is part of my childhood memories, reminding me of my late dad returning home from werk and a handful of chocolates wrapped in crackling colorful paper. It's part of my youth, if i may still be considered as one.

I'm mesmerized by chocolate, and I'm entranced by the nostalgic stories around it, which carry me back to long gone romantic days, sigh.

Chocolate is passionate, it's sexy and influential, sumtimes i start my morning by eating a small bar of chocolate with nuts. Weird sum say? Its an obsession i say.

Pls dun claim yourself as a chocolate lover , if you professes to eat only milk chocolate. Any real chocolate lover knows that dark chocolate is the only way to fly. hehe..

And so, often ppl would tell me tht a chocolate lover also defines a romantic person. So wat say u? Do you think i cut to be made as one?

So now I invite you to watch, smell and taste my love experience. Sound like real rite..well, u've been warned..dun say i dun

Im a pretty cynical gerl when it comes to showing my loved ones romantic gestures.
I saw men giving women roses and flowers. I saw women making special dinners for their partners. I saw teddy bears and candy, notes and calls, drives and sunsets. . . many of the very traditional romantic”gestures. But for me, there's nothing more romantic than an unexpected gesture, one that you thought up all on your own

Now, tht's not the only reason how being romantic means to me.

Being romantic, by my definition, isn't about what the giver gets. It's about the giving.

See if you can see what I am talking about in this example.

I wont expect him to fetch me and regard him as my chauffeur despite he owns a car . I wont ask him to blatantly buy things to impress me despite I knew he could afford so or neither will I ask him to abandon his friends despite I knew he would do tht for me.

Now, you tell me if that was romantic?

The last thing tht we have to take into account when it comes to romance is the amount of effort it takes.

So, what's a person to do?

That depends on what you define romantic as and what your intentions are.

I won't say that Im really tht romantic. As Im sure that if u have figured out, I dislike the word under it’s modern definition.

I consider myself more of a giver. I want nothing but the best for tht some1 special. So all of my intentions are directed that way. When I do something for sum1 special, it's because I want 2. It's because it's something tht person will enjoy, or make his life better or happier in sum way.

I dun ever expect anything in return for doing these things. . . wait. . . I lie. I do have expectations in this regard. I do want so badly to make sum1 smile. I want so much to be the 1 tht makes sum1 and to feel loved and to feel good. . .

So, no. . . I'm not romantic.

Ooops, i got carried away. Sorry.

Coming on a bit strong, don't you think? I luv chocolate, but let's not romanticise it 2 much: it's just fat and sugar.

Do i bore u?

I'm selfish that way.

So sue me n i'll end here.